bfs and exs

Ask any girl, she'll tell you shes been hurt, cheated, and/or misunderstood in a relationship. Don't get me wrong-- we've all been on the giving side of that coin as well, but that's not what this is about. This is about girls and our choice: to trust or not to trust. I think if you are going to trust someone, you have to feel trusted in return. I think that that is what it boils down to. Trust. It is hard to trust people once they've wronged you, but if you want things to work you have to take a chance. Breathe in, breathe out.... You shouldn't have to worry about what your significant other is doing. Vulnerability can lead to heartache, yes, but it can also lead to falling in love. Throw trusting them out the window, trust yourself instead. Trust that you can handle what comes your way. Trust your instincts and know that no matter what happens, you'll be able to come out on top in the end. With or without them. I raise my imaginary glass to all of my girlfriends, may we always be true to ourselves, the rest will all fall into place.